Why/How Suicide happens? and Remedy

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Biggest fear in the world is fear of death. Everybody tries to skip death, though death is invincible. All giant corporations with gigantic financial profits in the world starting from arms and artilleries manufacturer up to hospitals, doctors, pharma including WHO are running their show on the fear of death. But still average 91 people commit suicide every hour in the world making 2192 every day and almost 800,000 deaths from suicide every year. Furthermore, the statistics of number of people attempting suicide once or more is further terrific then we see here. For every suicide there are many more people who attempt suicide every year. A prior suicide attempt is the single most important risk factor for suicide in the general population causing suicide as the third leading cause of death in 15-19-year-olds, 79% of global suicides occur in low and middle-income countries by ingestion of pesticide, hanging and firearms, which are among the most common methods of suicide globally.

Research shows that approximately 90% of people who faced death by suicide were suffering from a mental illness at least once in their lifetime, and the most common mental illness reported was depression. Impulsivity and substance use, including alcohol and drugs, are also warning signs for elevated suicide risk. However, it should be noted that suicidal thoughts and behaviors are not at all the natural and instant consequence of serious life stresses. People who experience a stressful life feel intense sadness or loss, anxiety, anger, or hopelessness, and may occasionally have the thought to end themselves, but in most people, however, experiences of stressful life events do not trigger recurring thoughts of death, or intention of suicide immediately. If any of these symptoms like feeling intense sadness or loss, anxiety, anger, or hopelessness, and may occasionally feel like to finish themselves are present, then the person is suffering from depression or any other psychiatric disorder.

While the link between suicide and mental disorders (in particular, depression and alcohol use disorders) is well established in high-income countries, most suicides are reported throughout the moments of crisis with a breakdown in the ability to deal with life stresses, like financial or relationship problems, chronic pain and illness etc. In addition, experiencing conflict, disaster, violence, abuse, or loss and a sense of isolation are strongly associated with suicidal behavior. Suicide rates are also high amongst susceptible groups like refugee, migrants, indigenous etc. experiencing any type of discrimination. But we should not neglect the fact that suicide crosses all age, racial, and socioeconomic groups despite of geography, country, religion and socio-economic status globally. In the most materially advanced country like US, suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among children and adolescents ages 10-24, and the 3rd leading cause of death among 12year ages. The suicide rate is approximately 4 times higher among males than among females, but females attempt suicide 3 times as often as males. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among teenagers in the United States.

It is estimated that around 20% of global suicides are due to pesticide self-poisoning, most of which occur in rural agricultural areas in low- and middle-income countries. Other common methods of suicide are hanging and firearms.

The one question everyone asks without exception, is simply: why? Why did their friend, child, parent, spouse, sibling, neighbor or whoever might be, take their own life? Even when a note explaining the reasons is found, lingering questions still remain: yes, they felt enough despair to want to die, but why did they feel that? Why and how they can take such a vile decision. Why they want to end their life so fast? A person’s suicide takes the person, leaving behind by surprise and accentuating survivor’s guilt for failing to see it coming.

The answer for this why can be given as Major risk factors for suicide categorized as below:

  1. Stress and depression: They’re depressed. This is, without question, the most common (almost 86%) reason people die by suicide. Severe depression is almost always accompanied by a pervasive sense of suffering as well as the belief that escape from it is hopeless. The pain of existence often becomes too much for severely depressed people to bear. The state of depression warps their thinking, allowing ideas like, “Everyone would all be better off without me” to make rational sense. Stress and depression from any types of Mental illness/psychiatric diagnosis, agonizing fear, Physical/sexual abuse, Losses, Aggressive behavior/impulsivity, Lack of social support/social isolation, Poor coping skills, Family history of suicide and/or exposure to suicide, Family history of mental illness, frustration due to Physical illness, Family disruptions (divorce or problems with the law), Traumatic event etc. comes under this category and is easily curable if diagnosed on time.
  2. They’re psychotic. Malevolent inner voices often command self-destruction for unintelligible reasons. Psychosis is much harder to mask than depression, and is arguably even more tragic. The worldwide incidence of schizophrenia is 1 percent and often strikes otherwise healthy, high-performing individuals, whose lives, though manageable with medication, are often derailed from their original promise. Schizophrenics are just as likely to talk freely about the voices commanding them to kill themselves as not, and also, in my experience, give honest answers about thoughts of suicide when asked directly. Psychosis, too, is treatable, and almost always requires hospital admission until the voices lose their commanding power.
  3. They’re impulsive. Often related to drugs and alcohol, some people become maudlin and impulsively attempt to end their own lives. Once sobered and calmed, these people usually feel emphatically ashamed. The remorse is often genuine, but whether or not they’ll ever attempt suicide again is unpredictable. They may try it again the very next time they become drunk or high, or never again in their lifetime. Hospital admission is, therefore, not usually indicated. Substance abuse and the underlying reasons for it are generally a greater concern in these people and should be addressed as aggressively as possible.
  4. Feeling of insecurity of lacking of authority: It’s a general principal everyone wants to feel secure and sense of security comes from the authority above them. These types of people are crying out for help, and don’t know how else to get it. These people don’t usually want to die but do want to alert those around them that something is seriously wrong. They often don’t believe they will die, frequently choosing methods they don’t think can kill them in order to call attention to their challenges, but they are sometimes tragically misled. For instance, a teenager suffering genuine angst because he/she feels lonely or has gotten into a devastating fight with his/her parents, may swallow few sleeping tablets —not realizing that in high enough doses can cause fatal organs damage. Its medically reported that many people die a horrible death in an ICU days after such an ingestion when remorse has already cured them of their desire to die and their true goal of alerting those close to them of their distress has been achieved.
  5. They have a philosophical desire to die. The decision to die by suicide for some is based on a reasoned decision, often motivated by the presence of a painful terminal illness from which little to no hope of reprieve exists. These people aren’t depressed, psychotic, maudlin, or crying out for help. They’re trying to take control of their destiny and alleviate their own suffering, which usually can only be done in death. They often look at their choice to die by suicide as a way to shorten a dying that will happen regardless.
  6. Accidental suicide: They’ve made a mistake due to easy incautions access to ways of harming oneself, like guns, knives, etc. or suicide making play or fun. This is a recent, tragic phenomenon in which typically young people flirt with oxygen deprivation for the high it brings and simply go too far.

We can observe certain signs in a suicidal, categorized in warning Signs and Immediate warning like:

Warning Signs (generally seen for long run) are Preoccupation with death (e.g., recurring themes of death or self-destruction in artwork or written assignments, Intense sadness and/or hopelessness, Not caring about activities that used to matter, Social withdrawal from family, friends, sports, social activities, Substance abuse, Sleep disturbance (either not sleeping or staying awake all night), Giving away possessions, Risky behavior, Lack of energy, Inability to think clearly/concentration problems, Increased irritability, Changes in appetite, pessimistic perception etc.

Immediate warning signs that someone may be in a suicidal crisis include Feelings of hopelessness or desperation, Insomnia, Panic attacks, Social isolation, Irritability, Rage, Feelings of being a burden.

All suicide except sixth one (Accidental suicide) can be prevented by being on the lookout for the warning signs. We can also prevent suicide by asking about it. Studies show that people do not start thinking about suicide just because someone asks them about it. If we suspect one is suicidal, tell them that we are worried and want to help them. Remember, sometimes people who are thinking about suicide won’t tell we because they are worried how we will react. Our direct, non-judgmental questions can encourage them to share their thoughts and feelings with we. Regardless of their response, if we suspect that the person may be suicidal, get them help immediately. We should look on following points to decrease suicide rate or prevent somebody being suicidal.

  1. Eating Habits: Fast foods, violent/fearing food and genetically altered food are main cause of fast deaths. Food is an energy supply for our body to functions on its upmost capacity. The energy can be transformed but not destroyed. The rush foods cooked and consumed with rushing mentality produce a rushing energy leaving very less time to think about the pro and cons. We may take any decision in a fraction of second motivated by the energy produced from our food and end up in suicidal condition out of excessive stress.
  2. Following the principle of authority: Victim should be brought near to the counselling authority and gain their trust on principle of the authority. Being a authority be friendly and make sure your friend/counselee feels comfortable opening up and communicating with you. Ask questions and avoid judgments,” said Caroline Fenkel, a psychotherapist at Newport Academy, a treatment centers for teens struggling with mental health issues, eating disorders and substance abuse. “Listening is essential to building a bridge between you and a friend. Love and understanding come first. Understanding, compassion, empathy, and setting aside judgment go a long way. Encourage them to speak to someone who can help them address what they’re feeling. It’s okay to tell adults what’s going on if you feel it might save your friend’s life.”

They shouldn’t be blamed for falling prey to such distorted thoughts any more than a heart patient should be blamed for experiencing chest pain; it’s simply the nature of their disease. Our goal isn’t so much to really talk them out of it, but is to help engage them and get them involved with some help so that they can get the treatment that they need.

  1. Following regulated lifestyle: Early to bed and early rise followed by refreshing Coldwater bath, meditation, yoga and natural fruits and grains breakfast before workhour is essential for stress free living.
  2. Reading books: More we think about any triggers of stress, trauma, depression, fear more we get horrified increasing the chances of being suicidal. Reading the books like Ramayana and Mahabharata with full of inspirational and life changing stories and incident along with the philosophy of life gives less space and time to our mind converting itself as a workshop for evil thoughts.
  3. Yoga and meditation: Mantra mediation under the supervision of expert practitioner/instructors along with ayurvedic/herbal healing and the regular practice of yogic postures like Urdhva Hastasana in Tadasana(mountain pose with arms overhead), Adho Mukha Vrikshasana(Handstand), Adho Mukha Shvanasana (Downward facing dog), Viparita Dandasana(chair backbend), variation (Shoulder stand with chair), Setubandha SarvangasanaI (supported bridge pose over crossed bolters) etc. are the great remedies for coping with depression and suicidal thoughts.

And last but not least, do not leave a suicidal person alone, and remove drugs, sharp objects and firearms, since access to lethal means during a suicidal crisis is a major risk factor for suicide.

 

 

Hare Krishna.

 

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Name: Sripad Srivas Krishna Das Brahmacari

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